Well, my heart was broken 4 months ago when my husband passed away. He was only 51 years old and had hardening of the arteries which caused lack of oxygen to get to the heart.
I am older than he was...62 years old. I just came from the cardiologist to get my heart checked out and I am told I have mitral regurgitation. The doctor did not use that word and said it was only a little blood leaking backward thru the valve and so I looked it up online. He does not want to see until January again and he told me I would not have a heart attack. Two females on the staff knew I was worried but told me they had mild cases too. I do not know if they trying to make me feel it was very common and help me not to worry but irregardless, I am still worried. Especially since the doctor said my heart looked normal except for the leak...I had a stress test and echocardiagram.
Can anyone out there help me clarify more what is going on? How common is it really and should I be worried? The doctor did say he wanted to keep an eye on it and that is why I am going back in January. Thanks so much for your help out there. Sincerely, Viki
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Good Morning Viki
You are grieving, and this takes time, it is different for each person. And it is a process. It is important not to blame yourself for things you cannot change. I know your husband knew you loved him. Find satisfaction in what you did right, and let go of those things which weigh you down.
It is normal to have mild regurgitation in your valves as you age. All 4 of mine do that. And I am fine.
You are just carrying a heavy heart right now. God will be with you through these times. Cling to him, fill your heart with his word.
If you can get in a grieving class, or a support group. It will help you tremendously.
love
millie
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